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Feeling fit, looking good

Updated: Feb 21, 2019


Feeling fit, looking good

As a Personal Trainer I get to learn from my clients (as well as from my family, friends and colleagues) about the different motivations that drive people to take up a workout programme.

These can be quite varied and affected by local circumstance (people recovering from injury, women returning to the gym after childbirth or amateur athletes preparing for a marathon). A common motivation that I learn about regularly, however, is a desire on the part of the person concerned to ‘Look better in the mirror’.

Which is usually code for ‘Look better to the opposite sex’, or the same sex, or just to the person concerned. In short, the person preparing to change their diet, rearrange their lifestyle and to sweat it out regularly (but rewardingly!) in the gym is spurred into such action because they want to look better.

We are bombarded today with health advice that emphasises the positive impact of exercise and even, in the case of the This Girl Can campaign, in its empowering potential. Exercising, taking control of our desires where food is concerned, and living a more active lifestyle are promoted on the basis that they will make us feel better, not necessarily look better.

But the truth, certainly in my experience, is that for many people hitting the gym an activity which delivers a stronger, sexier visual image and which (hopefully) can lead to being attractive to other people.

And there is nothing wrong wit